Dating Makeover Retreat–The Ultimate Sexy Reboot 


DATES: April 12 – 15, 2018

Monarch Beach Resort, CA


$3,200  Double occupancy (shared room per person)

$3,500  Single occupancy

[I]s the one thing missing in your life sharing love with a great partner?

Are you a smart, successful woman who isn’t finding the man that is your equal?

Do you have trouble getting a date or turning dates into relationships?

Are you in a love rut?

At the end of the day life boils down to love. We all want it—that feeling that another person truly gets us, has our back, shares our dreams, helps us grow and is simply waiting at the end of the day to wrap their arms around us.

So why is it so hard to find?

Simply put because you don’t understand how to play the game.

Certified style coach, dating coach, licensed therapist, and matchmaker Kim Seltzer is going to teach you how to date and unleash the inner goddess within you through her unique three-tiered approach to making over your love life. During the 3-day weekend, you’ll learn about the Charisma Quotient for finding love from the outside in using style, emotional intelligence, and social IQ, to transform you so you attract the exact type of partner you want.

With Kim’s unique formulas and easy to grasp concepts, you’ll learn everything you need to transform your dating life, all while building your confidence and self love. You’ll leave feeling beautiful, flirty, more motivated and brimming with feminine energy and confidence.

Along the way you’ll connect with a community of like-minded women and have fun putting theory into practice during a shopping spree for dating outfits, blow outs at Dry Bar, a professional photo session for the ideal online profile images and a man scavenger hunt with Kim as your personal wing woman!

Your Host:
Kimberly Seltzer

FREE Complimentary 15-minute make over session

[W]ith a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, Kim Seltzer with has helped hundreds of people find lasting love and connection and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kim has changed hundreds of lives by changing their style, emotional and social intelligence using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image and messaging and how it impacts attraction.

This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena and iDate, as well as her own annual conference series for men and women, The Makeover Blueprint. Kim is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post, with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo Shine and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications.

You can also find Kim as a frequent co-host on the podcasts The Art of Charm with Jordan Harbinger as well as past episodes on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, and in her new cable reality dating show, The Romance. You can also listen to her now on her own podcast, The Charisma Quotient.

Retreat Includes:

  • Three night – four day luxury accommodations at stunning Monarch Beach Resort
  • Breakfast, lunch and dinner including taxes and gratuities (*excludes alcohol and snacks)
  • Man Scavenger Hunt Outing
  • Shopping Spree for dating outfits (*excludes purchases)
  • Hair styling session at Dry Bar
  • 1 Spa Treatment
  • Personalized Dating Plan
  • Professional photos with a Hollywood photographer
  • Retreat Unlimited Swag Bag


$3,200 Double occupancy (shared accommodation/ per person)

$3,500 Single accommodation

Day 1

4:00 PM – Arrival from airport to resort and explore

5:00 PM – Happy Hour with Kim (drinks and appetizers included)

7:30-8:30 PM – Opening Session:strategies for success, introductions and intentions

Day 2

7:00 AM – Healthy breakfast

8:00 AM – Full body workout

9:00 AM – Break

10:00 AM – Raising Your Style IQ and Attraction Factor

12:00 PM – Healthy lunch

1:30 PM – Shopping for dating outfits

4:00 PM – Break – Free Time

5:00 PM- Private Suite Happy Hour

6:15 PM – Dinner on Your Own


Day 3

7:00 am – Healthy breakfast

8:00 am – Yoga

10:00 AM – Raising your Emotional and Social IQ/How To Attract & Connect With Men

12:00 PM – Healthy lunch

1:30 pm – Flirting Workshop

2:30 pm – Dating Game

3:30 PM – Dry Bar Hair Styling, Date Prep and Photography

5:30 pm – Elegant Dinner 

Day 4

8:00 AM – Healthy breakfast – on your own

9:00 AM – Spa time/Relaxation massage or facial

10:30 AM – Overcoming Fears and Staying on Track With A Dating Power Plan

1:30 pm – Departures

Monarch Beach Resort

[W]inner of the prestigious AAA Five Diamond and Premier Resort Gold Medal Golf among other notable distinctions, Monarch Beach Resort offers guests an unmatched escape that embodies the barefoot elegance of Southern California’s coastal lifestyle. In Addition to our pristine beach, refreshingly, modern accommodations, and celebrated beachside dining, resort guests enjoy warm, personalized service from our Monarch Beach Resort Hosts and unique experiences for every age and interest.


[O]ur Dana Point resort features several celebrated restaurants that showcase the fresh flavors of Southern California and Monarch Beach’s coastal setting. Enjoy thoughtfully orchestrated dishes accompanied by breathtaking ocean views at our resort restaurants.


Miraval- Life in Balance Spa

[R]enowned for its “Life in Balance” philosophy, innovative programs and wellness activities, Miraval Life in Balance Spa offers an expansive spa experience inspired by the resort’s oceanfront location and rooted in practices that help guests achieve balance in their daily life. The new Miraval “Life in Balance” Spa offers more than 70 of the signature treatments developed at the company’s flagship Miraval Resort & Spa near Tucson, Arizona, each designed to “awaken the senses, create balance and promote a sense of well-being. You will also discover an entirely new catalog of services created specifically for Monarch Beach Resort, featuring California-inspired ingredients like crystal salt stones, algae, and marine mud.

Adventure & Excursions


[M]onarch Beach Resort is the most vibrant, luxury beach resort in Orange County, offering an unmatched level of services, indoor and outdoor activities, and exclusive wellness programs for those seeking new and exciting ventures. Whether you want to take on 18 challenging golf holes during a weekend getaway, discover a quiet haven to work on your yoga poses, or want to treat your family to a week-long beach escape, you’ll find everything you’re looking for at our coastal Southern California resort.

You can fly into 4 major airports:

  • John Wayne- Orange County Airport – 21 miles
  • Long Beach Airport – 41 miles
  • LAX – 60 miles
  • San Diego International Airport – 68 miles
  • Spa treatments can be purchased during the retreat if desired
  • Deposit Policies: To reserve your spot a non-refundable deposit required of $500.00 per person, balance must be paid in full by March 12, 2018. 
  • Cancellation policies: Any reservation must be cancelled by March 12, 2018 to avoid penalties, non-refundable deposit of $500.00 will not be returned
  • Have any questions? Please contact us directly at Dates are subject to change.

* This retreat does not include round-trip airfare, incidentals such as souvenirs, additional tours not part of the itinerary, and spa treatments. It is highly encouraged to purchase travel insurance.