Dating Makeover Retreat

With Kimberly Seltzer

Monarch Beach Resort- Dana Point, CA

February 21-24, 2019

Is the one thing missing in your life sharing love with a great partner?

Are you a smart, successful woman who isn’t finding the man that is your equal?
Do you have trouble getting a date or turning dates into relationships?
Are you in a love rut?

At the end of the day life boils down to love. We all want it—that feeling that another person truly gets us, has our back, shares our dreams, helps us grow and is simply waiting at the end of the day to wrap their arms around us.

So why is it so hard to find?

Simply put because you don’t understand how to play the game.

Certified style coach, dating coach, licensed therapist, and matchmaker Kim Seltzer is going to teach you how to date and unleash the inner goddess within you through her unique three-tiered approach to making over your love life. During the 3-day weekend, you’ll learn about the Charisma Quotient for finding love from the outside in using style, emotional intelligence, and social IQ, to transform you so you attract the exact type of partner you want.

With Kim’s unique formulas and easy to grasp concepts, you’ll learn everything you need to transform your dating life, all while building your confidence and self-love. You’ll leave feeling beautiful, flirty, more motivated and brimming with feminine energy and confidence.

Along the way you’ll connect with a community of like-minded women and have fun putting theory into practice during a shopping spree for dating outfits, blow outs at Dry Bar, a professional photo session for the ideal online profile images and a man scavenger hunt with Kim as your personal wing woman!

With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, Kim Seltzer has helped hundreds of people find lasting love and connection and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kim has changed hundreds of lives by changing their style, emotional and social intelligence using her signature formula,
More About Kimberly ↓
“The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image and messaging and how it impacts attraction. This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena and iDate,as well as her own annual conference series for men and women, The Makeover Blueprint. Kim is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post and, with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo Shine and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications. You can also find Kim as a frequent co-host on the podcasts The Jordan Harbinger Show with Jordan Harbinger as well as past episodes on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, and in her new cable reality dating show, The Romance. You can also listen to her now on her own podcast, The Charisma Quotient.

What to Expect:

Kim will provide you with all the tools you need to gain your sexy confidence, build connections with a community of single women and attract love in your life.

Join A Supportive Community

Find your tribe with an amazing group of single women just like YOU

Be Selfish

Put yourself first for once. Learn the value of pampering yourself, setting boundaries and focusing on YOU and your dating life.

Gain Sexy Confidence

Learn how to wear the right dating outfits, flirt effortlessly and connect with men with ease

Get Results

Create a personalized power dating plan, learn the secret method for creating attraction and how to break old patterns that might have hindered past relationships

This Ladies Only Retreat Includes:

Three night – four day luxury accommodations at stunning Monarch Beach Resort
Breakfast, lunch and dinner including taxes and gratuities (*excludes alcohol and snacks)
Man Scavenger Hunt Outing
Styling session for dating outfits (*excludes purchases)
Hair styling session at Dry Bar
1 Spa Treatment
Personalized Dating Plan
Professional photos with a Hollywood photographer
Retreat Unlimited Swag Bag

$3,540 Double accommodation (shared room)
$3,945 Single accommodation

“My transformation happened through the elegant eye of Kimberly Seltzer. With Kim’s graceful guidance, she gave me the confidence and understanding to create a wardrobe for ‘this day and age.'”

– Robin Rae

“I’ve been ‘Seltzer-ized’ and I’m loving it!”

– Stephanie

“What an amazing weekend! I had a lot of ‘AH HA’ moments to take away. It really showed me the small things I do that really aren’t in my best interest. I’m getting way more responses on Match and invites for dates too!”

– Jeanette

Nurture & Nature

We’re here to nurture you inside and out, with nutritious meals and serene surroundings.


Fusing healthy eating and seaside elegance, AVEO Table + Bar offers an al fresco experience for breakfast, lunch and dinner. The new Mediterranean concept restaurant embraces the seasonal bounty of the Californian coastline in a beautifully redesigned setting with an outdoor terrace that offers expansive views of the ocean and the Monarch Beach Golf Course. Taking a “Farm-to-Bar” approach, the cocktail menu will showcase local ingredients.

Wellness & Spa

For those who seek a path of mindfulness and reflection, Miraval Life in Balance Spa is a breath of fresh air. Our Orange County spa is a place to breathe, reflect and be in the moment. In this seaside retreat, you’ll find the space and time to be present and peaceful.

Monarch Beach Resort

Perched on a golden hillside overlooking the azure waters of the Pacific, Monarch Beach Resort is Orange County’s most luxurious coastal playground. Our AAA Five-Diamond sanctuary offers guests an array of exclusive activities and inspiring experiences that embody Southern California’s serene coastal lifestyle. From championship golf links and restorative spa services to water sports and celebrated dining, discover the allure of Orange County’s premier luxury resort.



Day 1


4:00 PM – Arrival from airport to resort and explore
5:00 PM – Happy Hour with Kim (drinks and appetizers included)


7:30-8:30 PM – Opening Session:strategies for success, introductions and intentions

Day 2


7:00 AM – Healthy breakfast
8:00 AM – Full body workout
9:00 AM – Break
10:00 AM – Raising Your Style IQ and Attraction Factor


12:00 PM – Healthy lunch
4:00 PM – Break – Free Time
5:00 PM- Private Suite Happy Hour


6:15 PM – Dinner on Your Own

Day 3


7:00 am – Healthy breakfast
8:00 am – Yoga
10:00 AM – Raising your Emotional and Social IQ/How To Attract & Connect With Men


12:00 PM – Healthy lunch
1:30 pm – Flirting Workshop
2:30 pm – Dating Game
3:30 PM – Dry Bar Hair Styling, Date Prep and Photography


5:30 pm – Elegant Dinner

Day 4


8:00 AM – Healthy breakfast – on your own
9:00 AM – Spa time/Relaxation massage or facial
10:30 AM – Overcoming Fears and Staying on Track With A Dating Power Plan


1:30 pm – Departures

Retreat Details

Payment Plans

Customized payment plans are available and can be arranged by contacting Tiffani Johansen directly at 312-337-3220

Travel Assistance

If you need travel assistance please contact Amy Buchert from Frosch Travel at 888-241-2592

Hotel Incidentals

A credit card must be presented at the time of check in for incidental charges (including spa treatments, additional excursions, alcohol, etc)

Deposit Policy

To reserve your spot, a non-refundable deposit of $750 per person is required. The balance must be paid 30 days prior to the start date of the retreat.

Flight Details

Please plan to fly in to John Wayne Airport, Orange County (SNA). The resort is 25 minutes from the airport and can be reached via rental car or Uber. Ground transportation is not included in the retreat price.

Roommate Requests

If you desire a  roommate, please indicate this on your form upon sign up.  If we are unable to pair you with one, we will adjust your rate to Single Occupancy, and collect the difference one week prior to the event.


Travel Insurance is highly recommended.

Itinerary is subject to change.

Cancellation Policy

Your non-refundable deposit of $750 will not be refunded. Please review our Terms and Conditions for the breakdown of our cancellation policy.